Honest and thorough communication is the bedrock of BDSM and being afraid of 'topping from the bottom' or accusing someone of doing so are not conducive to a healthy and happy relationship. Topping from the bottom is a phrase that gets tossed around in many different situations and for many different reasons. Critics of the… Continue reading The Phrase “Topping from the Bottom” is Bullshit
Very recently GC has discovered that she is a little. This is something that has been deep inside her for a very long time and she has had some difficulty getting comfortable with her little side. For those that don't know, a little is someone who enjoys ageplay or ABDL (adult baby/diaper lover). Ageplay is… Continue reading My Little is the Boss of Me
I bought a new pair of shorts from Bodyaware.com and I really, really like them. But more importantly my wife GC loves them. They only have a 2" inseam so when I'm sitting down, if I'm not wearing undies, I tend to poke out a little bit which I think is why she likes them… Continue reading New Shorts
My wife and I are kinky and our primary focus is male chastity and orgasm denial, but we also enjoy other aspects of BDSM. We're normal people with normal lives and this blog is about the normalcy of kink, bringing it out of the shadows of the weird and deviant.
In my last post I mentioned that GC was going away for a few days and it ended up that we didn't see each other for about 5 days. It really put a damper on the momentum that we had built up which was really disappointing for both of us. On top of that, GC… Continue reading Distractions
Date night was an EPIC success and no one even got spanked. I feel like I need some kind of maintenance to keep me in the headspace of being open, receptive, vulnerable. I can hold on to the feeling for a day or so but eventually it fades and I become a little withdrawn or… Continue reading A Two-fer
A few weeks ago we decided that Monday would be our date night. We work jobs that are very mentally demanding so by the middle of the week our evenings are spent just watching TV and trying to escape for a few hours. Monday is the perfect night for date night since we're still fresh… Continue reading Date Night
We went to Australia for three weeks and it was... an experience. A very expensive, amazingly wonderful experience. We spent about twice as much as we thought we would and we had a very liberal budget. We probably put ourselves about 6-8 months behind in our financial goals. But for a once-in-a-lifetime experience we felt… Continue reading The Honeymoon
One thing I don't want is to have this blog seem like a 'porn blog.' Yes, the content is of an adult nature but I don't want the focus to be on the depiction of those things but rather on the concepts. But, illustrations are always nice and interesting. I've added a new page to… Continue reading The Lewd and Nude Stuff
I've heard it said that a wedding ring symbolizes eternal commitment because it's circular and... well, whatever else they say, you know, blah blah. I don't care what it symbolizes in society in general, I only care that it means I'm taken. I'm so proud to display my shiny new gold wedding band. I had a… Continue reading The ring is symbolic. The lock is real.