My wife and I are kinky and our primary focus is male chastity and orgasm denial, but we also enjoy other aspects of BDSM. We're normal people with normal lives and this blog is about the normalcy of kink, bringing it out of the shadows of the weird and deviant.
In my last post I mentioned that GC was going away for a few days and it ended up that we didn't see each other for about 5 days. It really put a damper on the momentum that we had built up which was really disappointing for both of us. On top of that, GC… Continue reading Distractions
Date night was an EPIC success and no one even got spanked. I feel like I need some kind of maintenance to keep me in the headspace of being open, receptive, vulnerable. I can hold on to the feeling for a day or so but eventually it fades and I become a little withdrawn or… Continue reading A Two-fer
A few weeks ago we decided that Monday would be our date night. We work jobs that are very mentally demanding so by the middle of the week our evenings are spent just watching TV and trying to escape for a few hours. Monday is the perfect night for date night since we're still fresh… Continue reading Date Night
We went to Australia for three weeks and it was... an experience. A very expensive, amazingly wonderful experience. We spent about twice as much as we thought we would and we had a very liberal budget. We probably put ourselves about 6-8 months behind in our financial goals. But for a once-in-a-lifetime experience we felt… Continue reading The Honeymoon
One thing I don't want is to have this blog seem like a 'porn blog.' Yes, the content is of an adult nature but I don't want the focus to be on the depiction of those things but rather on the concepts. But, illustrations are always nice and interesting. I've added a new page to… Continue reading The Lewd and Nude Stuff
I've heard it said that a wedding ring symbolizes eternal commitment because it's circular and... well, whatever else they say, you know, blah blah. I don't care what it symbolizes in society in general, I only care that it means I'm taken. I'm so proud to display my shiny new gold wedding band. I had a… Continue reading The ring is symbolic. The lock is real.
So a few weeks ago Growing Curious and I were married. It was the most perfect day someone could ask for. The weather was perfect, everyone was happy and stress free, and GC was stunningly beautiful, of course. We had over 100 people attend and every single one of them told us how it was… Continue reading With this ring…
This is the second part of a story I wrote about permanent chastity. You can read part one of this story here. The next morning, they went through their normal routine, neither of them mentioning the previous night’s conversation. They could both feel it, though. They didn’t need to say anything to know what the… Continue reading Only Tomorrow Until Forever, Pt. 2
My fiancee loves to see me wear lace undies. I bought these from Body Aware and we both really like them. I'm so lucky to have someone like GC in my life, and even luckier that she likes to see me wear cute undies just as much as I like to wear them.