I had something of an epiphany several months ago: I need to have no right to privacy. I've been seeing a sexologist for almost two years. My personal growth has been exponential in that time but perhaps more importantly my self-awareness has also greatly increased. I now recognize that I have a tendency to isolate; I… Continue reading The Intimacy Assassin
I've known I was kinky for a long time and have been in several vanilla relationships which didn't work out. I wasn't fully invested in the relationships so it's no mystery why they ended, I just didn't feel comfortable sharing my kinks with my partner. I had been single for a long time and was… Continue reading How I Introduced My Wife to Kink
In my last post I mentioned that GC was going away for a few days and it ended up that we didn't see each other for about 5 days. It really put a damper on the momentum that we had built up which was really disappointing for both of us. On top of that, GC… Continue reading Distractions
Date night was an EPIC success and no one even got spanked. I feel like I need some kind of maintenance to keep me in the headspace of being open, receptive, vulnerable. I can hold on to the feeling for a day or so but eventually it fades and I become a little withdrawn or… Continue reading A Two-fer
A few weeks ago we decided that Monday would be our date night. We work jobs that are very mentally demanding so by the middle of the week our evenings are spent just watching TV and trying to escape for a few hours. Monday is the perfect night for date night since we're still fresh… Continue reading Date Night
I've heard it said that a wedding ring symbolizes eternal commitment because it's circular and... well, whatever else they say, you know, blah blah. I don't care what it symbolizes in society in general, I only care that it means I'm taken. I'm so proud to display my shiny new gold wedding band. I had a… Continue reading The ring is symbolic. The lock is real.
Small penis humiliation is one thing that I’ve never really been into. I think the main reason is because I don’t have a small penis. I know I don’t have a small penis and I’ve never felt self-conscious about my size. If someone tried to make fun of me for a small penis my only… Continue reading Hers Alone