One of the things I would like to accomplish not just with this blog but just in life, in general, is making kink normal. I’ve realized lately that this has become more […]
How I Introduced My Wife to Kink
I’ve known I was kinky for a long time and have been in several vanilla relationships which didn’t work out. I wasn’t fully invested in the relationships so it’s no mystery why […]
Laser Hair Removal
Last year I bought an at-home laser for a more permanent solution for (primarily) pubic hair removal, the Tria Hair Removal Laser 4x. I’ve used it sporadically and although I certainly notice […]
The Phrase “Topping from the Bottom” is Bullshit
Honest and thorough communication is the bedrock of BDSM and being afraid of ‘topping from the bottom’ or accusing someone of doing so are not conducive to a healthy and happy relationship. […]
My Little is the Boss of Me
Very recently GC has discovered that she is a little. This is something that has been deep inside her for a very long time and she has had some difficulty getting comfortable […]
New Shorts
I bought a new pair of shorts from Bodyaware.com and I really, really like them. But more importantly my wife GC loves them. They only have a 2″ inseam so when I’m […]
Distractions
In my last post I mentioned that GC was going away for a few days and it ended up that we didn’t see each other for about 5 days. It really put […]
A Two-fer
Date night was an EPIC success and no one even got spanked. I feel like I need some kind of maintenance to keep me in the headspace of being open, receptive, vulnerable. […]
Date Night
A few weeks ago we decided that Monday would be our date night. We work jobs that are very mentally demanding so by the middle of the week our evenings are spent […]
The Honeymoon
We went to Australia for three weeks and it was… an experience. A very expensive, amazingly wonderful experience. We spent about twice as much as we thought we would and we had […]
Living Curious 