The Curious Couple

My wife and I are kinky and our primary focus is male chastity and orgasm denial, but we also enjoy other aspects of BDSM. We're normal people with normal lives and this blog is about the normalcy of kink, bringing it out of the shadows of the weird and deviant.

The Phrase “Topping from the Bottom” is Bullshit

Honest and thorough communication is the bedrock of BDSM and being afraid of 'topping from the bottom' or accusing someone of doing so are not conducive to a healthy and happy relationship. Topping from the bottom is a phrase that gets tossed around in many different situations and for many different reasons. Critics of the… Continue reading The Phrase “Topping from the Bottom” is Bullshit